Sunday, January 26, 2014

When He's Not Holding Your Hand....

So.... sorry it has been awhile since the last post. This one has been a long time coming. See, Belle and well... his name will be Eric. They have been on a few dates and have hung out a few time, but yet he wasn't holding her hand... and it made me think. I had to wonder what his deal was. Why is it that a guy can be with a beautiful woman and not eventually hold her hand? Perhaps he is not really that interested? That's what I would normally assume in this situation.

Well on their most recent date he FINALLY broke the touch barrier, he put his arms (yes plural) around her for a little bit. Good right? That's what we all thought... until the end of the night when he tells her he is not wanting to date seriously and is dating other girls. WHAT?!? Why break the touch barrier now? Belle's brother thinks he is confused. Giselle (our unofficial 3rd roommate) thinks that he is scared. I think he's a big jerk. Belle is sad, understandably so since she is a girl and we, as women, seem to take that upon ourselves. I just want to hurt him... but I'm aggressive. :)

So why don't guys hold hands with girls? They know it signals something no? Don't they realize that girls get a little attached by even a small touch like arms around them? I don't think I would be so annoyed at Eric if he hadn't broken that touch barrier before delivering the bad news... In short why are guys, or rather people so dumb in dating? You either want it or you don't. Okay maybe sometimes it is a little confusing, but don't drag people through your confusion and don't play with their emotions! Sheesh! Common decency! Anyway this is my ranting post for now...

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